Thursday, May 22, 2014

A memorable Thailand Trip - Helped us to unveil the other side of life !! 







My babe.. my life... my senses... Deepika !! I love you

Thursday, February 20, 2014

Compassion, Love, Help and the strength to Thank and Apologize makes life worthwhile

We have only one life and the only life ! There are no re-births and we don't go anywhere after life. We finally crumble into carbon and some other basic elementary elements. In this lifetime we experience a gazillion experiences and forget to include necessary ingredients to make it worthwhile. 

My opinion of life is to have abundance of the following:
1. Compassion - Should come with passion
2. Love everyone - Haters also love someone and would eventually be loved
3. Help those whom you can 
4. Thank you for little things done by others
5. Apology for wrongs done by us

None of the aforementioned can demote the essence of life in any sense and thus must be an integral part of one's life journey. I try to use these in my daily life process and let me tell you it gives me nothing but the feeling of being a good person who believes in doing right and value others. Is that not the essence of this little life of ours. 

Actually at this time I am feeling bad for a lady, to whom I owe an apology - They were with us in the lift. We had just finished a smoke in the cellar of our office and were in the lift when two ladies from the office above our floor came in and within the next couple of seconds they were exchanging glances which I sensed were not declaring us as a group of good guys in the lift ...  They were both  wearing salwar-kameez.
I din't know what those glances and exchange of visual talks meant but I somewhere knew it was not something that they were happy about. Our floor came and the metal  lift door slid with a whiff of fresh air entering the lift. I might have taken a few steps towards the glass-door of my office when I heard the visual talk translate with voice.... I looked back over my shoulder and saw.... Both the ladies covering their nose and mouths with their Chunni / Duppatta and my eyes met the eyes of one of the women. 

It was not the best look that I have seen in a woman's eyes - it was ABUSIVE in a non-verbal and stabbing manner. We kept that eye contact for a fraction of a second and the metal lift doors slid back taking the two ladies to the floor above us. 

That look has made me feel small... really small.. .probably like the ASH from a cigarette that is stomped by a million feet. 

I owe her an apology and I shall see to it that it is delivered before 3:00 PM today. 

I will also not come by the lift after a smoke ! I will climb up the stairs !


Thursday, January 30, 2014

Jaana chahta hoon
jahan dusre gaye nahi...
Karna chahta hoon
jo dusre kare sake nahi...

Samaet nahi paa raha hoon apne aap ko
Samet nahi paa raha hoon apne aap ko

Chadhna chahta hoon unchaai ki choti
Choona chahta hoon jeet ki us thandi hawa ko
Seena bhar jaye, aur sab tham jaye
lekin, samaet nahi paa raha hoon apne aap ko

Girne ka dar nahi hai...
magar phir bhi ghabrahat hoti hai
Haarne ka bhaya nahi hai..
magar aap se ghabrahat hoti hai

Vishwaas toh hai ke kar jaaonga jo juta nahi paa raha hoon
Samaetna chahta hoon, par samaet nahi paa raha hoon apne aap ko